Skeptical of Ghosts and Haunted Places? It’s Okay.

Ghost hunting attracts a wide range of people. Some are believers who just want proof that ghosts exist.

Others are skeptics, and they want to see for themselves how silly and gullible ghost hunters are.

Most people fall somewhere between those two extremes.

Generally, I’m skeptical when I arrive at a haunted site.

Oh, I firmly believe that energy or entities that we call “ghosts” are real.

Likewise, at a haunted location, I’m sure people have experienced something odd there.

I just don’t know what that “something odd” might be, and I’m cautious about announcing that the cause is a ghost.

Carl Jung was not a ghost skeptic.

However, I raise an eyebrow when someone at a ghost hunting event is loudly and obstinately skeptical. I become irked if they insist, belligerently, that an anomaly must have been caused by [add any unlikely explanation here]. Usually, I’ll ask that person to leave.

If we assume that ghosts are real, I can’t imagine how distraught a spirit would feel, not only ignored most of the time, but then dismissed as “a fragment of  underdone potato,” to quote Ebenezer Scrooge.

The facts are:

  • We can’t prove that ghosts are real. Currently, beliefs must be founded upon personal experience. No ghost hunting tools can prove, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that apparently ghostly phenomena are caused by actual ghosts.
  • We can’t prove that a location is haunted. We can demonstrate that baffling anomalies occur at those sites, and they appear consistent with an explanation involving ghosts.

However, at many haunted sites, I’ll default to Sherlock Holmes.

“When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.”

~ Arthur Conan Doyle, The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes.

And, since Carl Jung could be honest about things he couldn’t explain, I’d hope today’s skeptics can be at least as open-minded.

Do Ghosts Only Appear at Night?

Every day, you may go past haunted sites and not see the ghosts in them.

That’s because most people think ghosts only appear at night.

Some ghosts are just as visible (or even easier to see) in the daytime.

You can see ghosts in the daylight

Sure, most ghost hunters prefer to investigate in the dark. You’ll have fewer visual distractions.

But… what would limit a ghost to nightly appearances? Really, where else would they go?

Try a few casual daytime investigations before work or school, or on your way home. (I always recommend a daylight visit before a formal investigation, anyway.)

Look carefully at everything around you. Check for anything odd or unexpected: a strange shadow, an unexplained flicker of light, and so on.

If you use ghost hunting tools, bring them with you. EMF surges and EVP are just as likely during the day as after dark.

Limiting yourself to nighttime investigations reduces your opportunities by 50%.

Give daytime ghost hunting a try. What you encounter may surprise you.

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Related article: Ghost Hunting in Daylight, with tips and one of my more memorable experiences.

Ghost Hunting? Make the First Move Yourself!

After several decades of ghost hunting (yes, really), I’ve discovered a few shortcuts.

One is:

Act as if ghosts are there all the time, whether or not you sense them, or see a spike in EMF energy, or anything else.

Just talk to them as if (a) they are there, and (b) they’re alive and well and eager for communication.

And maybe they are.

Ghosts don't only come out at night.

Well-known haunted sites can seem like a “sure thing” for ghost investigations. Beginners should probably start there.

However, ghosts can be anywhere. If you get that “something’s odd, here” feeling, consider acting as if the site is haunted, even if it seems an unlikely place for ghosts.

One possibility is the history of the site.

  • An undocumented battle may have taken place at that location.
  • A crime may have occurred there, but was quickly covered up.
  • Someone (or several people) may have been buried beneath that park, battlefield, house, or other building. And then it was forgotten.

A ghost in an unlikely location

A classic example is the grave of Richard III that was found beneath a car park in England.

In my opinion, Richard III is one of the most likely British rulers to return as a ghost. But really, who’d think to go ghost hunting in a parking lot?

So, the next time you’re in a location that has an odd feeling to it, trying talking to ghosts that might possibly be there.

You can speak quietly, as if you’re talking to yourself.

You don’t have to go full-on Zak Bagans, addressing the ghosts in a loud voice.

And, above all, do NOT invite the ghost to communicate through or otherwise use your body in ANY way. Every time I see Zak do that, I wince. He’s taking risks that I consider foolhardy, even for a pro.

The point is, you can act as if a ghost is there, even if the location seems unlikely.

Then, if a ghost does seem to be at that site, you can research the location’s history.

Though you’re not likely to find a ghostly connection as dramatic as the Richard III’s corpse, you may find a strong historical reason for a ghost (or two or three) to linger at that location.

And, if you do find a ghost in an unlikely place like a grocery store, I hope you’ll let other ghost hunters know about it. Every unique haunting gives us an opportunity to learn more about what ghosts really are.

Telepathy and Ghost Hunting

Telepathy and ghost hunting – Can one affect the other?

It might.

That doesn’t mean it does, but I think we need to keep an open mind.

Apparently, I’m not the only one to consider this.

A thoughtful woman, considering telepathy and ghost hunting

If, like me, you’re studying ghost hunting academically, Peter Underwood’s research should be part of that.

In the 1986 edition of his book, The Ghost Hunter’s Guide, Underwood talked about telepathy in ghost investigations.

I agree with him: Both can be factors in ghost hunting.

Consider two aspects of telepathy.

  • One is in the past.
  • The other is in the present.

So, where is the telepathic impression coming from?

  • It could be from the site’s representative or caretaker, who knows the history of the site and its ghosts.
  • Perhaps you’re picking up the thoughts of a team member who’d researched the site’s history beforehand.
  • If strong enough residual energy lingers at the site, you may be perceiving an impression from it.
  • Or, you could be receiving information from an actual ghost.

(Of course, there are other possibilities, including a parallel reality impressing an identity or event into your thoughts.)

I’m not sure if we can ever be certain that what we perceive, mentally, is actually coming from a ghost.

At best, it’s difficult to discern where those impressions originated.

My approach and filters

I’m a history buff. It’s one reason I love haunted places: Most have unusually rich histories.

Both the physical location – and the ambience –  convey a sense of the past better than many of their non-haunted counterparts.

So, I research the site and its ghosts before my first visit to the location.

Of course, I understand team members’ reluctance to study the site’s history ahead of time.

They want to arrive as “blank slates” so they feel reasonably certain that what they perceive isn’t just wishful thinking.

My standard is different.

After thoroughly researching a haunted site, my challenge to the ghosts is: Tell me something I don’t already know.

I still can’t fully rule out telepathy, especially if our guide or the property caretaker has done more extensive research than I have.

But when I receive an impression that’s almost a contradiction of the site’s (or the ghost’s) documented history… that’s when I become really interested.

And, after the investigation, I’ll research even more deeply, following any leads that might support the extra insights I now have.

This is an added layer of evidence, and I think it’s vital to ghost hunting.

Then, if it’s true, proof will be found in history.

I’m looking for evidence, one way or the other.

If the alternate or additional information seems credible, that will go a long way towards convincing me that yes, the site really is haunted.

If I can’t find anything to support the impression, perhaps it’s someone else’s fictional view of the ghost or haunted place.

Maybe I’ve merely tuned into their wishful thinking.

Yes, I approach most ghost investigations as a skeptic.

I still believe in ghosts, and that something unexplained may be going on at almost every site that’s described as “haunted.”

Nevertheless, I think it’s important for serious researchers to keep telepathy in mind (no pun intended).

Double-check history to see if your impressions may have come directly from a ghost.

It might open new and fascinating doors to ghost hunting!

 

FEAR – Why It’s Important in Ghost Hunting

Do you jump when a light flickers in an empty room?

Many of us do that.

But others can dismiss a clearly outlined shadow person as if it’s just ho-hum. (I hope you NEVER become that jaded about ghost hunting.)

Fear depends on context.

One person's strange is another person's normal, in ghost hunting.

When you’re investigating a haunted site, your experiences are your own.

Fear can be important!

Fear can signal something you should be afraid of. And, that fear may be deeply personal.

Sure, it might be something silly that startled you.

That’s okay. We all have those embarrassing moments.

Ask a more experienced ghost hunter about whatever worries you.

  • It might be something easily explained.
  • It might be something paranormal, but nothing to fear.
  • Or, it may be something other ghost hunters will want to double-check. You might have stumbled onto something that’s truly ghostly… OR DANGEROUS.

When you’re truly afraid…

Don’t let anyone dismiss your concerns as “nothing important,” or – worse – ask you, “Are you sure you didn’t imagine that?”

Whether they realize it or not, every ghost hunter has their own agenda.

They got into this field for a reason.

Usually, it’s a question related to something in their past. A scare they had as a child. Or a chilling story from a movie or TV show, or told to them by a relative.

They’re looking for answers they haven’t found yet.

Past experiences influence every ghost hunter’s reactions… pros and newbies.

  • They may be astonished by a door that closes itself, on command.
  • They may be terrified by a sobbing sound that’s behind a sealed wall.
  • Or, they may react to their own fears by trivializing others’ experiences at the haunted site. (That’s important to remember!)

Likewise, a new ghost hunter will have a different experience – and reaction – from someone who’s been in this field for years.

Be respectful.

Allow each person to witness what happens (if anything) during an investigation, or even a ghost tour.

However, since that’s not always possible…

When fear seeps into those at the site, it’s important to trust your senses.

Ignoring them could mean missing out on something truly fascinating.

Worse, dismissing your internal radar could put you at risk from the living and the dead.

If you feel afraid, maybe there’s a good reason for it.

Stay alert, and be mindful of others’ reactions during the investigation… and immediately after it.

And, if you’re truly afraid, it’s okay to leave the site. You don’t need to explain anything to anyone.

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This video may help with the #1 reason many new ghost hunters become anxious…

Why People Go Ghost Hunting at Halloween

Halloween and ghosts… they seem to go together naturally. (Or should I say “supernaturally?” ) It’s a big reason why people go ghost hunting at Halloween.

But it’s not the only one.

The fact is

No two people go ghost hunting for the exact same reasons. That’s especially true at Halloween.

  • Many want an answer about ghosts, haunted places, or the afterlife.
  • Others are eager to see, for themselves, which – if any – movies and TV shows about ghosts are real.
  • But some are tired of reality.  They want to connect – for just one evening – with something fantastic, magical, or just plain fresh and different.

And, since Halloween is supposed to be THE most haunted night of the year…

It’s also the one night when many people decide to step out of their everyday routines, and seek ghosts.

Of course, this can result in overwhelming crowds at popular sites.

Despite that, Halloween can still provide a meaningful experience for all.

An extraordinary experience may be the real reason people go ghost hunting at Halloween.

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Especially at Halloween, anything extraordinary – even a “good scare” – can seem like a momentary escape from reality.

Yes, we know whether we’re witnessing something ghostly or merely odd.

But, especially at Halloween, let’s not spoil the moment for those seeking that once-a-year thrill.

As long as they seem comfortable (or happily uncomfortable) with their ghost hunting experiences, maybe that’s good enough.

Let them have that moment of escape.

By morning, they’ll return to life’s everyday realities, smiling as they remember their brush with the unknown.

Maybe that’s enough.

Or maybe they’ll join us again, on a quieter night, eager to learn more about real ghost hunting.

Either way, let’s remember the importance of Halloween to those seeking answers, or just a unique evening of magic and mystery.