Some sites are so haunted, even skeptics have to admit that something odd is going on. But, in many cases, skeptics can drive away ghosts.
It’s important to remember that ghosts are basically people; they just don’t have bodies in this plane of existence. They’ll react the same way that you or I would, when they’re ignored or dismissed.
Have you ever been ignored? Was there a time when someone looked right through you, as if you weren’t there? Or, when someone talked about you as if you weren’t in the room? A lot of people experience this at some point, especially as preteens or during their adolescent years. In most cases, they avoid any situation where they’ll feel snubbed again.
It’s the same with ghosts. A spirit may be doing his best to be noticed. Admittedly, that may not seem like much, compared with what a person with a body can do. However, if a skeptic repeatedly ignores him or finds “normal” explanations for what’s going on, the ghost may feel offended. After that, the ghost can be so upset, he practically has to be persuaded to manifest in any way.
If you go to a haunted site and nothing happens, be patient. Perhaps the last visitor to that location was a skeptic. The ghosts may still be there, but they’re stung by being ignored or even ridiculed.
As silly as it feels to talk about loud to… well, what seems like empty air… that can help. In fact, many ghost hunters expect to wait at any haunted site for at least 20 – 45 minutes before anything ghostly happens.
Some ghost photographers recommend waiting that long, even if ghosts are obviously present. Keep in mind that many ghosts are from time periods when cameras — especially flash cameras — did not exist. They may be afraid that the camera captures their soul (or a part of it); some ghosts may even think that explains why they’re still on earth when they expected angels to escort them to “the other side.”
It’s worth repeating: Be very patient with ghosts. In many cases, they’ve already been deeply traumatized by dying. They may be in such denial about death, that’s why they’re still here. Like the lead character in the movie, “Heaven Can Wait,” they think that they’re entitled to a different outcome.
Because we can’t be sure about our communications with ghosts, we can’t be certain why they’re still here or why they manifest to some people and not others. We can guess, based on everyday psychology, but many ghosts are profiles in abnormal psychology.
It’s difficult to make generalities about ghosts. A ghost from one location may respond differently than you’d expect. In addition, few ghosts behave as they’re represented in fiction, movies and on some TV shows.
So, when you go ghost hunting, keep an open mind and be very patient. If there’s a skeptic in your group, leave and come back without him or her, later. It’s important to be as respectful and polite with ghosts as you are with the living. That can be the difference between a successful ghost hunt and one that’s disappointing.
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I don’t know if ghosts are real or not. They may be nothing more than our over active immaginations. But if ghosts are real and do exist then I do not believe that being a skeptic on a ghost hunt is not going to scare a ghost away if in fact there is one there in the first place. I’m sure that if ghosts are real then they are probably as scared and nervous about us as we seem to be about them.
Martin,
Some reports are probably the products of over-active imaginations and wishful thinking. I don’t see any harm in that, as long as it’s not taken to an extreme. If all someone wants is a “good scare” and they achieve that in a haunted setting… well, that’s in the category of entertainment, not research. As long as everyone’s clear about the difference, that’s fine with me.
I also agree that many ghosts could be as nervous as the most anxious investigators are, if not more nervous. I mean, just by having bodies and the ability to more readily affect the physical environment, we could seem pretty scary to an entity with relatively little influence over their surroundings.
However, just as I avoid obnoxious people, I think it’s possible that some (not all) ghosts would avoid the most vocal and obnoxious skeptics. (They might also avoid the gushiest, most over-the-top believers.) I’m basing that on the concept that ghosts — where there are any — generally behave the same as the living do.
Keeping an open mind, and reviewing the data after each investigation — not on-the-spot in the heat of the moment — is the most sensible approach, regardless of one’s personal biases.
Cheerfully,
Fiona